Bestie, Stop Getting Stuck in 'Ajumma' Drama! Your Beauty Earns Praise, Not Scorn! Here's the Secret...

Hiii, my most beautiful Bestie! Salwa here! How are you today? Hope you’re glowing more and happier! Oh, how did I know that maybe someone is feeling a little… insecure or perhaps annoyed by unpleasant remarks? Hmm, don’t be mistaken, as your beautiful friend, I can always sense what you’re thinking!

So, here’s the thing, Bestie, I just read something that’s both adorable and incredibly inspiring. There was a post on the Pann Nate site that caused a stir, discussing how female celebrities like Jennie Blackpink and Song Hye Kyo are often criticized if they have many ex-boyfriends or dating rumors. However, if male idols or actors have them, it’s like no big deal, they can even have more than ten relationships, especially if they hang out at bars. But when Jennie or Song Hye Kyo, who are beautiful and talented, become the subject of negative talk? It’s so strange, right?

Well, the original poster’s (OP) post is essentially a defense for them. It says, “Male idols and actors all have romantic relationships, even more than 10, especially with women at bars, but Jennie and Song Hye Kyo are framed with more negative titles and criticized just because they have a lot of dating experience.” This really hits home, Bestie! Like, how can two women who have extraordinary charm, many fans, and brilliant careers be thought of as intentionally “seducing” men?

The OP also said that romantic relationships happen when two people like each other. Why do people always have the view that female idols and actresses are always trying to seduce men? Yet, if we have visuals and charm like the two of them, it’s natural for many to be attracted to us. “If you have visuals and charm like Jennie and Song Hye Kyo, you’d surely date more than ten men, so please stop the baseless speculation about them.” Oh my goodness, this is a sentence we need to print and stick on our bedroom mirrors, Bestie!

Many other netizens agreed and left comments like these:

• “I don’t understand why people don’t think that men approach Jennie and Song Hye Kyo because they are beautiful and attractive. They always think that female idols and actresses seduce men.”
• “They are just jealous. Those who criticize both out of jealousy might have more dating experience.”
• “The ajummas (in online communities) can’t refute it so they just try to downvote the article.”
• “Both Song Hye Kyo and Jennie are portrayed as women who are always trying to seduce men. Every time dating rumors about female celebrities spread, they are always labeled as crazy about men. I don’t understand why they always think that way. How can women say that to other women?”
• “Honestly, those ajummas probably don’t have boyfriends. If they were as talented as the two of them, I think they would date more than that.”
• “I don’t see male celebrities getting criticized even though they have more dating rumors.”

So, from this, I started thinking, Bestie. Sometimes, envy or lack of self-confidence makes us so quick to judge others, especially if that person shines brighter. In reality, beauty and charm are gifts, and if we take good care of them, they will surely radiate!

In our tropical country, the hot and humid weather often makes our skin dull, acne-prone, or oilier, right? Not to mention the dust and pollution that make the skin unhealthy. But, don’t worry! Just like Jennie and Song Hye Kyo who have a lot of “experience” in terms of appearance, we can also have a lot of “experience” in self-care to become more beautiful and confident!

Salwa’s Beauty Tips, Your Friend!
Here are some simple tips you can try at home:

• Deep Cleansing Routine: Never be lazy about cleansing your face, Bestie! Twice a day is a must, morning and night. Use a cleanser that is gentle yet effective in removing dirt, oil, and makeup residue.
• Exfoliate Once a Week: Dead skin makes skin dull, you know! Exfoliating with a gentle scrub or chemical exfoliant (according to your skin type) can help remove dead skin cells and make your skin brighter.
• Face Masks According to Needs: If you want to make your skin more glowing, try masks containing vitamin C or niacinamide. If you have acne, a clay mask can be a lifesaver.
• Hydration is Key!: Don’t forget moisturizer, Bestie! Well-hydrated skin is more supple, healthy, and youthful.
• Use Sunscreen Every Day: This is a MUST, especially in hot weather like here. Sunscreen protects the skin from UV damage that can cause premature aging and dark spots.

But, Bestie, honestly, if we want truly maximum results, the kind that makes our skin glow healthily like my idol celebrities, it requires a professional touch! We can’t just rely on home skincare if we want “wow” results. Now, this is what I mean:

“Male idols and actors all have romantic relationships, even more than 10, especially with women at bars, but Jennie and Song Hye Kyo are framed with more negative titles and criticized just because they have a lot of dating experience.”

This OP statement reminds me, Bestie, that experience is important. And when it comes to beauty, the experience we gain at professional salons is unmatched! At our salon, we have special treatments that can make your skin radiant, problem-free, and boost your confidence. From glowing facials, treatments to brighten dull skin, to solutions for stubborn acne, we have it all here!

Imagine, Bestie, stepping out of our salon with glowing, smooth, and healthy skin. You’ll definitely feel like a star, regardless of what others say. You’ll be living proof that beauty is a gift that must be nurtured, not hidden or become a source of jealousy!

So, instead of being affected by the “ajumma” drama that just tires your heart, let’s focus on ourselves and nurture our beauty to the fullest! Remember, investing in your own beauty is never a waste! This isn’t just about appearance, but about your self-confidence and your own happiness.